Thursday, July 21, 2005

What I Feared

In the end, it was what I had feared. It would have been 3 months tomorrow.

A couple of friends are at the edge of a full relationship. But they are not sure if the parties they are dating are what they want. I tell them, go, try, because if you never try, you never know, and may live to regret not having taken that chance.

And if you must try, give it a 100%, because if not, it is not worth trying.

But if you give a 100%, you put yourself at risk to get hurt when it doesn't work out.

Relationships are like a game of Russian Roulette, if you are lucky, you won't get shot down. All we can do however, is to pick up the gun, put it to our heads, pull the trigger, and hope its a "click".

3 comments:

rench00 said...

I prefer the analogy of a risky business investment.

You invest your effort, energy, money, etc. into the venture. If it works, you win big time. If it doesn't, you lose big as well.

And more than just Russian Roulette, where it is just pure luck, a business investment actually depends on what you do, that, though luck still plays a part, there are things you can control.

Well bro, you take care man

Cookie said...

well, you seriously dont sound good...

You need a drink. Or two.. ;)

Titania said...

Like they say high risk, high return, if not then cut your losses. But sometimes, there are intangibles u cannot measure, like what your heart feels- despite the various differences.