The Right Words to Say

We all face the difficulty of finding the right words to say sometimes.

Which results in awkwardness, insensitivity, miscommunication.

Sometimes, we just need to go with what feels right.

Love will find a way.

Opportunity

When one door closes, a window opens.

And sometimes, the window is what you need.

So don't get too troubled by the closing of the door. You might like what you see inside the window.

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Give yourself a chance to move on. And prepare yourself for the next opportunity that will come along.

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So, someone asked me how I was feeling since my recent breakup.

My reply was that now, I just feel blank. Its not relief, sadness, anger, a sense of loss or the other typical gamut of emotions one might run through the course before final acceptance of the situation. And it is different from a feeling of nothingness or indifference, which might be as a result of a) hardening your heart to the feelings; b) you are a b*stard and didn't love her at all; c) not thinking about it at all; d) general nonchalance; e) giving up on love.

Its hard to describe this feeling of blank.

One can reach there for various reasons.

For me, I think it might be a case that somewhere deep inside my sub-conscious, I'm glad it ended. It's like I dodged a bullet or something. Like I have been able to convince myself that its better for it to have ended now then after marriage. But that my consciousness (and maybe morality) feels the need to be sad, pensive or just generally down.

This conflict of conscious and sub-conscious emotions result in blank.

Makes sense?

Funny

Distinguishing features.

Multiplier Effect

'Whatever you give a woman, she is going to multiply...

• If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby.

• If you give her a house, she'll give you a home.

• If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal.

• If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart.

She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her. So...

• If you give her any crap, you'll receive a ton of shit!

W.I.F.E

Four guys and a woman are stuck in an elevator.

While they are stuck, they strike up a conversation.


The first guy says, 'I'm a Y.U.P.P.I.E., you know...

''Young, Urban, Professional.''


The second guy says, 'I'm a D.I.N.K., you know...

Double Income, No Kids. '


The third guy says, 'I'm a R.U.B., you know...

''Rich, Urban, Biker. '


The fourth guy says, I am a D.I.L.D.O., you know...

'Double Income, Little Dog Owner.''


They turn to the woman and ask her. ''What are you?''

She replies: 'I'm a W.I.F.E., you know...

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Walls

Whenever someone is wallowing in self-doubt, feeling self-pity, mired by troubles, etc... its is natural for that person to start building "walls" around themselves, in hope to heal before emerging from that carapace.

I used to do that too... but what i realised (in hindsight) is that recovery takes so much longer because when you are walled up, you tend to surround yourself with those ill-feelings that you should be getting rid off...

As such, I don't ever retreat into my shell anymore. I go out. To seek support and love from those whom I trust.

Unfortunate Names

Been slightly busier at work (if thats even remotely possible), so here are some pics to amuse you.

If you don't get this joke... you are a good person. Hurhur.

Public Service Message

Don't be a dumbass. You might become one of Darwin's statistics.

What Do You See?

Poor design for a mall methinks. =P

Misery

Have been thinking a lot about this phrase.

"They say misery loves company"... and how true it may be.

On a side note, can someone remind me which song its from?

Happy 2009

This new year, I resolve to bring happiness to the people around me.